What Are You All About?

 

“Never judge a book by its cover.”

Does anyone really believe that? Perhaps that was true in the early years of publishing where books were all one of about five unattractive colors. Today, however, everyone in the book business realizes that those covers better stand out if they want the books to leave the shelves.

And why shouldn’t it be that way? The cover holds the title, the authors name (as well as any known reputation), and usually a brief summary of the topic matter. If sum of these exterior efforts does not align with my interests, why should I believe the contents will.

Of course, I realize this saying is often pointed towards people, but my thoughts are still the same. Reality check:

People, like books, will always be judged by their covers. 

What does this mean for emerging leaders?

  • Want to be known as someone who loves people? Then your speech, actions, and face should glow with love!
  • Want to be known as someone who is responsible? Show up on time, finish the job, and do things without being asked.
  • Want to known as expert? Study hard, contribute to blogs and periodicals, build a platformoff expertise.

You can spend your life decrying this injustice, but you will do so in futility. Or you can decide what is important to you and make sure that it is the first impression you make on people.

Good or bad, right or wrong, most people will make up their mind about you in a few brief moments. Some people will never move beyond this preconception. On the rare occasion that you get the chance to change this paradigm, know that it will not be easy.

If your exterior presentation is not aligned with what you want people to think about you, it may be time for some alignment. At the risk of sounding like Disney’s Mulan, when will your reflection show who you are inside?

If your life was a book cover, what would you want people to think you are all about?

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  • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

    Powerful post, Noah. We may not like it, but we are judged and we tend to judge people on first impressions. As ambassadors for Christ, our “cover” should reflect Him in all we do.

    • http://www.noahlomax.com/ Noah Lomax

      This is the truth. Being in a foreign country always makes me think about what my identity is reflecting. That is actually what my post is about tomorrow

  • David Chadwick

    Good thoughts!

    • http://www.noahlomax.com/ Noah Lomax

      Thanks for reading brother!

  • Jim

    Excellent thots.  I have been in discussion with some teens who throw up the “God sees the inside” debate when the covers and images of their music clearly reflect something very un-Christ-like.  It is true that God sees the heart but may we never forget that our outside may be the only Christ some people see so we best prepare it wisely and clearly.

    • http://www.noahlomax.com/ Noah Lomax

      I love that last statement. This brings two thoughts to mind: first, what good to others is mere internal transportation? Second, can internal transformation really exist without the externals being affected?

  • http://twitter.com/sarah_c_kurtz Sarah Kurtz

    Great now I’ll have the Mulan song stuck in my head ~ Thanks for the post!

  • http://www.lifeofasteward.com Loren Pinilis

    I found this post really humorous for some reason. The idea that we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover is a nice one, but people don’t do it – so get used to it and adapt. A refreshing dose of reality. So now let’s work on being good covers!

    • http://www.noahlomax.com/ Noah Lomax

      So true! Like much of life: We can complain about what isn’t or we can embrace and adapt to what is!

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    I would hope people see me as a servant leader who has a passion to help others. Great thoughts Noah!!!