What’s Worth More Than Words?

 

Your walk talks and your talk talks, but your walk talks louder than your talk talks,” my teacher waxed eloqently. I was just young boy figiditing in the Sunday school room of our small, country church.

It was a silly little tongue twister we had recited many times before. It was not until later that I understood the profundity of this statement.

Your actions speak louder than your words.

This childhood lessons holds nonetheless weight in adulthood.

Ken Blanchard and the authors of Leading at a Higher Level write, “It is estimated that a leader’s actions are at least three times as important as what he or she says.”

 

In life and leadership, people care more about what you do than what you say.

Your actions:

  • Communicate more clearly.
  • Reveal who you really are.
  • Impact people’s memories.

Furthermore, when what people see contradicts what they are told, people will replicate what they see.

If the people you lead modeled your actions, what would your team, company or ministry look like?

Add to the list! Why do you think your actions carry so much more weight than words?

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  • http://twitter.com/Youthguy07 Carl Jones

    My high school football coach always said at practices, “Don’t tell me you want to play- SHOW me you deserve to play!”  Anyone can say it.  Not everyone will do it.  Great reminder, Noah!

    • http://www.noahlomax.com Noah Lomax

      Awesome addition, Carl! I was just telling a teenager that never before has success been so readily attainable to a generation, but few are willing to put forth the effort that it requires! Thanks for sharing the wise words of your coach!

  • Anonymous

    This is such a great point about backing up your talk with your actions.  I have heard it before, “Don’t tell me what your going to do, show me.”  This is something I beleive what separates effective leader from effective ones. Great post.

    • http://www.noahlomax.com Noah Lomax

      It certainly can be said a hundred different ways, but “Talk is cheap!” Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment, Dan!

  • http://www.jerrygodsey.com Jerry Godsey

    Reminds me of the song by Bruce Carrol that says, “I’d read see a sermon than see one any day, I’d rather someone walk with me than merely show the way…” Good stuff, Noah

    • http://www.noahlomax.com Noah Lomax

      Wow! Sounds like an awesome song! Clearly this is the style of leadership Christ modeled for us. Thanks for the addition, Jerry!

  • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

    I think your second to last question was pretty powerful:
    “If the people you lead modeled your actions, what would your team, company or ministry look like?”

    It’s something I couldn’t just blow by and will need to spend some time reflecting on the next week or so. 

    • http://www.noahlomax.com Noah Lomax

      Thanks for stopping by, Jason! After you get a chance to reflect, would you be interested in sharing your thoughts as through a guest post? You always have great things to share on your blog!

  • Lynnae Lawson

    Neowah,
    Thanks for the post! I grew up hearing Pastor Herbster drill “Your walk talks and your talk talks and your walk talks louder than your talk talks.” What a reminder that people more readily believe what I do than what I say. Thanks for the reminder that my actions communicate my inner thoughts, reveal who I am, and impact the memories of others. I need that everyday, but especially this semester as I begin teaching.